I'm in two minds whether I should let her go. In the meantime, she has already purchased tickets for a festival away, which I now regret letting her buy. I'm sorely tempted to look into other schools, preferably an all-girl's school.
It was not my first choice, and I always felt there was a very relaxed attitude to sex and drug use there. I think her school is also part of the problem. If she gets pregnant, she is the one who will carry the can. He pointed out that when my son was up to something similar a few years ago I was nowhere near as angry. My husband thinks I'm being too harsh and is feeling sorry for her. We are still barely speaking, but I'm so shocked at seeing her virtually having sex. She is forbidden from seeing this boy and I told her I need to be told every day where exactly she is going. She can no longer be in the house on her own (I've taken her house keys from her.) Since then, I have laid down rules, which she sees as completely unacceptable. I was so furious I couldn't speak to her for the rest of the day. I nearly lost my life and screamed at him to get out of the house. I came home from work early last week to find my teenage daughter in a state of almost total undress with a guy.
